well its completely normal to be nervous asking someone out, especially if you’ve never had a girlfriend! But i think what would be easiest is maybe texting her and asking her to go to a movie with you or something and see how things go from there and maybe after the movie you guys can hang out and if it all goes really well ask the question! :) -sophia x
Trying to just ignore the rumor is the best thing you can do. you know it’s not true and when people realize you don’t care then the rumor will die down due to the fact that its just a rumor and people like having things to talk about. and about the guy, you should maybe wait a little longer if you do go out with him so your friend gets over him completely. i think you should mention it to your friend but only when youre ready. try to tell her how you feel, get her opinion on everything, just try not to have this pull you both apart <3
~Daryan :) x
which one do you think of right before you go to bed, and right when you wake up? which one do you have more of a physical attraction for and an emotion attraction. emotional attractions tend to last longer than physical attractions. and if you think that you like them both evenly then maybe you shouldn’t have a girlfriend right now and just keep talking to both of them :)
~Daryan <3
are you sure she didnt accept it? or she just didn’t accept it yet? Try messaging her or something :)
First of all, if he has a girlfriend and he’s flirting with you, what makes you think he won’t flirt with girl if y’all start dating? Think about that first, and if you’re comfortable with it, go make sure he has a girlfriend. If he does, then i would lay low for a little bit, don’t try to get inbetween their relationship. Once they do break up (which will probably happen eventually), be that good friend for him. Make sure he knows that you care about Him. And once he’s over it, go for him! Don’t be too strong with flirting, but make sure he knows you like Him. He will probably eventually like you back and if he doesnt, who cares! It wasnt meant to be. Find someone that’s worth your time and gives you his time. Good luck darling! Xx
-Haley <3
That’s awesome! You’re very lucky for finding that one best friend xx
Yeah that’s true , I know what you mean. If you want a break, just go sit somewhere alone at lunch, and when you’re home, that’s your you time. Im the same way but I have to pull through and be happy at school but once I’m home I just go on tumblr and let myself be sad and that’s ok. People should understand sometimes you just want some you time. Maybe this weekend just stay home and hang out instead of going out.That’ll hopefully give you some time :) -sophia xx
Honestly being weird is so cool. Some schools, you’re cooler and more artsy the weirder you are.. If other people don’t say you’re weird, but that in fact you’re funny, then don’t discourage your weirdness! Everyone else likes it, why don’t you? Also everyone’s weird, trust me. If you weren’t weird you wouldn’t be interesting whatsoever. -sophia x
Well it’s understandable that you’d be really insecure about it. My BEST friend is 6”1-6”3, not sure but she’s really tall and she used to be more insecure about it but now she uses it to her advantage! She plays basketball, models, and is stunning!! Of course some people bug her about it sometimes and she gets insecure about it but she makes the best of it! Honestly it’s not a big deal, being tall is amazing :) She’s dating someone a bit shorter than her and it doesnt seem to bother either of them, you just have to find the right person! Don’t let it bring you down, just be the happiest you can and if you’re not all insecure about your height, people wont be bugged about it as much either! -sophia
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Well if you only like him on and off, you shouldn’t try to have a relationship because that’s just going to be so up and down! One minute you’ll really like him and the next you wont. And as for his age I really don’t thik that’s an issue. If you think you’re emotionally prepared for a relastionship where you’re going to be up and down then go for it, but otherwise continue being flirty friends and having a thing, that’s the best way I think. I think its a lot easier and less stressfull than dating! -sophia x
Well there’s nothing you can really do about the fact that he parties and stuff, that’s his choice. But if he gave you his number he’s probably at least a little interested! And don’t worry about him taking forever to respond, some people are naturally like that, don’t take it personally. But if you want to get to know him better, organze a lunch or time at school to hang out and talk and stuff and see where that takes you! -sophia x